Why do I find it exceptionally disturbing when people yell at their maids, drivers, assistants? I hear a young girl, barely 20, screaming at the top of her voice at one of her maids who didn't do a neat job of what was asked of her. The lady must have been 40+
My upbringing does not permit me to raise my voice at the domestic helps and people working for us. In fact, many times, my driver has yelled at me for overstaying at a place. I was angry. But I didn't yell.
Seriously, you can't justify that by yelling or screaming you are correcting them. You simply want to create fear in them. And if I'm right, none of us really that fearful of our fellow beings. Unless of course I know my head will be chopped off for breaking a glass bowl, I will only pretend to be scared then later bad mouth you. Like we do with our annoying bosses.
In my eyes, people who yell at people who work under them are insecure and foolish. You are not satisfied with the work they do, then hire someone else or you do it yourself. Save yourself from negativity around you.
My upbringing does not permit me to raise my voice at the domestic helps and people working for us. In fact, many times, my driver has yelled at me for overstaying at a place. I was angry. But I didn't yell.
Seriously, you can't justify that by yelling or screaming you are correcting them. You simply want to create fear in them. And if I'm right, none of us really that fearful of our fellow beings. Unless of course I know my head will be chopped off for breaking a glass bowl, I will only pretend to be scared then later bad mouth you. Like we do with our annoying bosses.
In my eyes, people who yell at people who work under them are insecure and foolish. You are not satisfied with the work they do, then hire someone else or you do it yourself. Save yourself from negativity around you.
1 comment:
oh god, i couldn't agree more!
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